Are you a real estate wholesaler looking to skyrocket your profits?
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Today, we're diving deep into the world of double closings—a powerful technique that can help you close real estate deals like a pro.
But wait, what exactly is double closing? Let's break it down.
Double closing is when a real estate wholesaler purchases a property from a seller and immediately resells it to an end buyer, often within a matter of minutes.
So there are two sides of the transaction; Side A and Side B.
Side A is the side of the transaction that transfers title from the seller to you as the wholesaler. While Side B is the side of the transaction that transfers title from you, the wholesaler, to the end buyer.
This means you can earn a profit on the deal without even taking long term ownership of the property or paying any closing costs. How amazing is that?
Now, before you get too excited, let's talk about the risks. Double closing is not without its challenges. If the end buyer backs out, you could find yourself stuck with the property or what we call the equitable right that you can't cash out on.
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To ensure a smooth transaction, it's crucial to involve experienced professionals, like a real estate attorney and title agent, who understand the process inside out.
One of the most significant advantages of double closing is speed. Time is money in the real estate world, and double closings can help you close deals in just days or even hours because it's typically all-cash.
Imagine turning a profit and moving on to the next deal without the usual costs and hassles of owning real estate. Double closing is a game-changer that is still understood but only a few-selected!
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But remember, success lies in the details. Let's walk through the five essential steps of a double closing: find a motivated seller, negotiate a purchase price, get the property under contract, find an end buyer, and close the deal with both parties.
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Hey there.. Prestige Family. We all know trust is the rock-solid foundation of any successful relationship. It's what keeps the flame of love burning bright! Hey, sometimes life throws us a curveball, and trust can take a hit.
But fear not! Today, we've got a treasure trove of 23 effective ways to fix and rebuild trust in your relationship. From understanding the dynamics of trust to unleashing the power of open communication and vulnerability ...these strategies will guide you on the challenging path of rebuilding trust, even if you have to start alone. Let's strengthen those bonds, ignite the passion, and build unbreakable trust, one step at a time!
As usual, we will focus on what you can control and not diagnose the side of the story that we do not know. Let's dive in.
1. Understand the Importance of Trust
Recognize the significance of trust in a relationship – it affects emotional well-being and the overall health of the bond. Trust is the bedrock that holds everything together, fostering love, intimacy, and growth. When shattered, it leads to emotional turmoil. Rebuilding trust demands patience, commitment, and a genuine desire to repair what's broken. Let's embark on the path to rebuilding trust, one step at a time!
2. Accept Responsibility
Own up to your actions if trust is broken. Admit your mistakes, express remorse, and show commitment to making amends. Taking responsibility demonstrates integrity and paves the way for open communication and healing. Embrace this opportunity to grow and rebuild trust in your relationship.
3. Open and Honest Communication
Establish open and honest communication with your partner. Encourage candid conversations about feelings and concerns, while practicing active listening and empathy. When both partners feel heard and validated, trust flourishes, deepening the emotional connection in your relationship. Let your communication be a beacon of trust, guiding your journey towards understanding each other's hearts and minds.
4. Practice Active Listening
Master the art of listening to your partner – it shows respect and value for their perspective. Avoid interrupting or getting defensive during discussions, as it hinders trust-building. Instead, give them your undivided attention, respond with empathy, and reflect back to ensure understanding. Active listening fosters a deeper connection, creating a safe and open atmosphere. Let your partner know their words are cherished and trusted in your relationship.
5. Express Empathy
Empathy is the superpower of trust-building. Step into your partner's shoes, grasp their emotions and perspective. Validate their feelings, creating a bridge of connection and deepening trust between you both.
6. Rebuild Integrity
Integrity is the cornerstone of trust. Walk the talk and align your actions with your words. Consistently acting with honesty and keeping promises shows reliability, fostering security and dependability. Embrace integrity as your guiding principle on this trust-building journey, transforming your connection with your partner.
7. Apologize Sincerely
A genuine apology works wonders in rebuilding trust. Take responsibility, express remorse, and show dedication to healing and making amends.
8. Patience and Time
Rebuilding trust is a gradual process that requires both partners to be patient and committed. Trust cannot be rebuilt overnight, but with genuine effort and understanding, it can be nurtured and strengthened over time, paving the way for a stronger and more resilient relationship.
9. Establish Boundaries
Boundaries are the trust-safeguarding fence in a relationship, providing safety and respect. Openly discussing expectations nurtures trust and understanding. Remember, applying boundaries is an art, not an exact science. Focus on managing your expectations and giving your partner unlimited freedom to express their expectations.
10. Demonstrate Reliability
Reliability is the backbone of trust. Show up consistently, keep promises, and build a foundation of dependability. Small gestures reinforce the connection and create a sense of security in the relationship.
11. Avoid Deception
Wisdom guides trust-building. Be authentic, consider emotions, and balance truthfulness with sensitivity in communication. Embrace wisdom to build a bond grounded in trust.
12. Seek Professional Help
Seek professional support for rebuilding trust. Therapists, counselors, or coaches offer fresh insights and effective tools to overcome challenges, fostering open communication and healing.
13. Practice Forgiveness
In the journey of rebuilding trust, practicing forgiveness is a transformative act of healing. While it may be challenging, work towards forgiveness, without imposing unrealistic expectations on yourself or your partner. Remember, forgiveness is a deeply personal process.
14. Build Self-Trust
Before trusting others, it's essential to cultivate trust within yourself. Prioritize self-care, set healthy boundaries, and follow through on your commitments to strengthen your self-trust.
As you become more confident in your own integrity, trusting others becomes a natural extension, fostering a solid and authentic foundation of trust in your relationship.
15. Be Accountable
Accountability is a cornerstone of trust in a relationship.
It's about owning up to your mistakes and taking responsibility for your actions. When you show your partner that you are committed to personal growth and positive change, it not only rebuilds trust but also strengthens the bond of mutual respect and admiration.
16. Be Transparent
Embrace transparency to rebuild trust while respecting personal boundaries and privacy. Find a balance that fosters trust and understanding, deepening your connection with your partner.
17. Demonstrate Consistency
Consistency is the key to rebuilding trust. Align your words and actions to show reliability and commitment, fostering safety and stability in your relationship. Let your actions speak louder than words on this trust-building journey.
18. Show Appreciation
In rebuilding trust, genuine appreciation for your partner's efforts is like watering trust's seeds, fostering a deeper emotional connection. Recognize their vulnerability, reinforcing their value in your life. Appreciation nurtures a strong foundation of trust.
19. Practice Empathy
Empathy is trust-building's heart, bridging the gap with your partner. Understand their pain and emotions by putting yourself in their shoes. Genuine empathy fosters healing, understanding, and deeper emotional connection, rebuilding trust.
20. Let Go of Resentment
To rebuild trust, release past resentments and anger. Carrying grudges hinders healing and growth. Embrace forgiveness for a brighter future together, free from past grievances.
21. Initiate Couples Activities
Shared activities strengthen the bond and trust in a relationship. Enjoy hobbies, date nights, and new experiences together to create positive memories, enhance emotional connection and erase the effects of bad experiences.
22. Focus on Self-Improvement
Prioritize self-improvement in rebuilding trust. Invest in emotional intelligence, communication skills, and self-awareness to navigate challenges and foster a more fulfilling connection with your partner. Your individual growth strengthens the relationship and builds trust and harmony.
23. Celebrate Progress
Celebrate every step forward in rebuilding trust. Each small victory strengthens your commitment and nurtures a stronger relationship. Embrace the journey of progress, and trust will flourish, fostering a more resilient and loving bond.
As you've learned, rebuilding trust is a journey that demands dedication and compassion from both partners.
By embracing the strategies outlined above – from open communication to practicing forgiveness and empathy – you can begin to mend the fractures in your relationship and nurture a deeper connection with your loved one.
We have been through this rebuilding trust in a relationship. So if you're ready to take the next step in restoring trust and strengthening your bond, we invite you to download our free book "Get My Marriage Back."
Packed with practical tools, and our real-life success stories, this book offers invaluable insights to guide you on the path to healing, seducing your partner, boosting attraction and rebuilding a loving, lasting relationship with your romantic partner.
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Together, let's embark on this transformative journey of trust-building and reignite the flame of love and understanding in your relationship. Your future of trust, love, and happiness awaits. Download your free book today.
He yells at you? If this is you, I'm sorry to hear that you're experiencing difficulties with your husband. I can only imagine how confusing this period is for your marriage. Yelling can be distressing and detrimental to a relationship for either side but I need to highlight some differences in its effects when it comes to which side; husband or wife.
In this video, we will explore 5 effective tips to address and resolve this issue permanently, creating a healthier and more harmonious relationship. Let's dive in!
Tip #5: Stay Safe
When faced with a situation where your husband yells at you, it is important to prioritize your safety above all else. While yelling itself can be emotionally harmful, if it escalates to physical threats or violence, it becomes even more critical to take immediate action. Your well-being is of utmost importance, and you deserve to be in a safe and secure environment. If you ever feel physically threatened or unsafe, it is crucial to seek help right away. One way to do this is by reaching out to domestic abuse hotlines in your area.
These hotlines are staffed by trained professionals who can provide you with support, guidance, and resources. They can help you develop a safety plan and connect you with local services that can assist you in navigating the situation. It is important to have the information for domestic abuse hotlines readily available, even if you don't currently feel an immediate need for it. Abusive situations can often escalate gradually but seemingly fast, and having the contact information on hand ensures that you can access help quickly if the need arises. Remember, prevention is key.
By being proactive and seeking support before the situation worsens, you are taking an important step towards safeguarding yourself.
If you are unsure of the hotline numbers in your area, a simple online search using keywords like "domestic abuse hotline" along with your location can provide you with the necessary information. Please remember that my purpose is to provide information and support, but I am not a substitute for professional help. If you find yourself in an emergency or immediate danger, please reach out to your local authorities or call emergency services right away. Your safety is of paramount importance.
Tip #4: It's Not Your Fault
Human relationships, especially those involving romantic partnerships, are intricate and multifaceted. Conflicts are an inevitable part of any relationship, and it's important to remember that when your husband yells at you, it is not automatically your fault. Blaming yourself for his behavior is not productive for your emotional well-being. It's essential to recognize that conflicts arise due to a multitude of factors. Communication breakdowns, differing perspectives, past experiences, and personal triggers can all contribute to conflicts within a relationship.
It is rarely a simple matter of assigning blame to one person. By acknowledging that conflicts are a natural part of human interactions, you can begin to release the burden of self-blame. This shift in perspective allows you to approach the issue with a more balanced and compassionate mindset. Instead of internalizing the blame, focus on addressing the conflict in a healthy and respectful manner. When conflicts arise, it is crucial to engage in open and honest communication with your husband once you feel safe. Express your feelings and concerns without resorting to blaming or accusing language.
Use "I" statements to convey how his yelling affects you personally. For example, “I don’t feel safe when you yell like that.” By sharing your emotions and experiences, you create an opportunity for understanding and more importantly for him to solve a problem from a prospective of feeling needed. It's also important to recognize that conflicts often require no more than one person’s effort towards the direction of resolution. Sure! While it may not be entirely your husband's fault, he also bears responsibility for his behavior and its impact on the relationship. But that is not it.
This is an opportunity to involve a little seduction skills which will give you an opportunity to earn a higher level of romantic interest and attraction here. It will also encourage open dialogue where both of you can express your perspectives, actively listen to each other, and work together to find constructive and more sustainable solutions. Seeking the support of a coach or counselor can be immensely beneficial in navigating conflicts and improving communication within your relationship.
A trained professional can help you as an individual gain insight into the underlying issues and provide guidance on healthier ways to address conflicts and express emotions even if you have to start alone. Remember, conflicts are a normal part of relationships, but it's crucial to approach them with understanding, empathy, and a commitment to finding resolutions that honor your well-being first and subsequently his. By letting go of self-blame and embracing a collaborative approach, you can work towards a healthier and more harmonious relationship.
Tip #3: Engage Your Power
When faced with a situation where your husband yells at you, it is natural these days to think about setting boundaries. While boundaries are essential for maintaining a healthy relationship, it is equally important to tap into your personal power and influence. Instead of trying to control your husband's behavior, focus on understanding and harnessing your own strengths. Take a moment to reflect on the qualities that attracted and seduced him to marry you in the first place. What aspects of yourself and your relationship made him choose you as his wife?
Recognize that you have the ability to influence him in a positive way, and with the right support, you can re-engage your power to make a significant impact on your relationship dynamics. When setting boundaries, it's important to approach them with respect and understanding. Avoid imposing boundaries as a parent would on a child, as this can create a power dynamic that may not be conducive to a healthy romantic partnership. Instead, focus on establishing boundaries that prioritize your well-being and promote mutual respect; it’s for you and your self-preservation.
As soon as it feels safe, communicate your needs and expectations to your husband in a calm and assertive manner, making it clear that your boundaries are not meant to control him, but to create an environment where both of you feel respected and heard. While boundaries are important, it's equally crucial to recognize that change cannot be forced upon someone. Your husband may not be fully aware of the impact his yelling has on you, or he may struggle with his own emotions and communication skills. Rather than trying to change him directly, focus on modeling the behavior you wish to see in the relationship. Lead by example by embodying effective communication, active listening, and respect.
When conflicts arise, strive to respond calmly and assertively. Show empathy and understanding towards his perspective while expressing your own feelings and needs; granted, it’s tricky. You might wonder if you are enabling bad behavior. Not really. By approaching conflicts with compassion and understanding, you create an opportunity for growth and positive change within your relationship. Engaging your power does not mean controlling your husband, but rather harnessing your own strengths and abilities to positively influence your relationship. With patience, understanding, and support, you can work towards creating a partnership built on mutual respect, effective communication, and shared growth.
Tip #2: Communication 2.0
When it comes to addressing conflicts in your relationship, effective communication plays a crucial role. However, it's important to recognize that communication goes beyond just being calm and honest. It's about ensuring that your husband feels respected, valued, and truly heard. Communication 2.0 is a concept that involves active listening as a fundamental aspect of effective communication. It goes beyond simply talking and encompasses creating a space where both partners can express themselves openly and honestly; so it might have to start with your active listening capabilities. This approach allows for a healthier and more constructive dialogue, fostering understanding and connection. To practice communication 2.0, it's essential to actively listen to your husband's concerns, perspectives, and emotions; it might take a tremendous amount of patience. This means giving him your full attention without interrupting or dismissing his thoughts; you might even feel like it’s unfair. Show genuine interest in understanding his point of view, even if it differs from your own. Reflecting on what he is saying, verbally and especially non-verbally, it demonstrates that you value his input and are willing to engage in meaningful conversation. Active listening involves more than just hearing the words being spoken.
Pay attention to his body language, tone of voice, and the emotions underlying his message. Seek clarification if needed, and ask open-ended questions to encourage him to elaborate and share his thoughts more deeply. This level of engagement demonstrates your commitment to understanding his perspective and fosters a deeper level of connection and empathy. If you can picture this, you can probably imagine how yelling at you is virtually impossible. It's important to note that communication 2.0 is a two-way street. While it is crucial for you to actively listen to your husband, it is equally important for him to practice the same approach. But it’s a dance and sometimes it takes the potential complainer (i.e you) leading the tango in the direction that you desire and then you can take credit for it.
By embracing communication 2.0, you create an environment where both partners feel valued and respected eventually; not necessarily instantly. It lays the foundation for effective problem-solving, increased empathy, and a stronger emotional bond within the relationship. In addition to practicing communication 2.0, consider seeking further guidance and insights on effective communication strategies. As mentioned earlier, Lola and I have a whole chapter dedicated to communication 2.0 in our book. Exploring these resources can provide you with additional tools and techniques to enhance your communication skills and promote a healthier and more fulfilling relationship. Remember, effective communication is a key component of any successful relationship.
Tip #1: This is Not Sustainable
While the tips provided thus far offer valuable guidance for improving your relationship, it is crucial to recognize that the current dynamic of your marriage is not sustainable in the long run. It's important to acknowledge the social construct that many relationships operate within, where the husband is often expected to be the head of the household and the leader of the marriage. The previous tips focus on empowering yourself and improving your personal communication skills. These strategies can certainly lead your marriage in a better direction and promote healthier dynamics. However, if you find yourself constantly shouldering the responsibility of leading and making important decisions, it might eventually kill attraction. So it may be necessary for your husband to engage in coaching or seek personal growth opportunities once you are able to seduce him into that receptive space.
Taking the lead in a relationship can be draining and burdensome over time as you have your own lane and responsibilities as a lady. It's essential for the husband in most marriages to take the responsibility of leading and setting the tone for the emotional well-being of the marriage. This allows for a more balanced and sustainable partnership where both individuals feel valued and involved. When the time comes, you can encourage your husband to join you to explore personal growth opportunities, such as coaching or counseling. This can provide him with the tools and insights needed to develop leadership skills, improve communication, and foster a greater sense of self-awareness; earning a version of respect that is much more sustainable and attractive overtime. It will not only benefit him but also benefits the relationship as a whole. It's important to approach this suggestion with sensitivity and understanding.
Avoid framing it as a criticism or a personal flaw, but rather as an opportunity for growth and development together as a couple and a family. Communicate your desire for a more balanced partnership where both of you can actively contribute, making decision-making and leadership easier for him. There is no need to compete with him with regards to leadership. Partnership and leadership are not mutually exclusive and in reality, there is no one without the other. You can even lead by encouraging him to lead if leadership is what you crave so badly. Leadership is not about running our mouths; it’s demonstrated in action. By encouraging your husband's personal growth journey, you create a space for him to explore his own potential and take on a more active role in the relationship without feeling like you are a subordinate. This shift can bring about a healthier and more sustainable dynamic where both partners feel empowered and fulfilled.
Dealing with a husband who yells at you can be incredibly challenging, but it's not an insurmountable issue. By prioritizing your safety, understanding that conflicts are not solely your fault, engaging your personal power, implementing effective communication strategies, and recognizing the need for sustainable change, you can work towards a healthier and more harmonious relationship. Remember, it's essential to seek support from professionals or trusted individuals who can provide personalized advice tailored to your specific circumstances. LOLA and I have been through this in one shape or form and resolved it permanently. Download our book for our full story and discover the strategies we used to overcome this challenge. Visit www.LoveAndPrestige.com to access the book and gain valuable insights for your own journey towards a happier and healthier relationship.
My wife yells at me. So your wife yells at you?
In any relationship, conflicts and disagreements are bound to arise from time to time. However, when your wife starts yelling at you frequently, it can be emotionally draining and damaging to the relationship. If you find yourself in this situation, I’m sorry that you are dealing with this.
It's important to address the issue and work towards a healthier and more respectful dynamic. In this video, we will discuss five practical tips to help you resolve this problem permanently, creating a happier and more harmonious relationship with your wife.
Let’s countdown the tips as we dig a little deeper into each one.
Tip #5 - How to Locate National Support Against All Levels of Abuse.
When dealing with a wife who yells at you, it's essential to prioritize your safety and well-being. If you ever feel threatened or fear for your safety, it's crucial to seek help immediately.
You can locate your national support hotline for domestic violence or abuse and reach out to them for guidance and support. These organizations have professionals trained to handle such situations and can provide you with the necessary resources to ensure your safety and well-being. Just search the phrase "domestic abuse" with your country name on your favorite online search engine such as Google and you will have instant access to help.
Tip #4 - Engaging in Self-Intelligence and Leveraging it for Improvement in Your Relationship.
While it's important to address your wife's yelling, it's also essential to examine your own behavior and how it may contribute to this situation. Engaging in self-intelligence allows you to gain a deeper understanding of yourself and your actions.
Assess what aspects of yourself might be attracting this behavior from your wife, without falling into self-guilt or victim shaming. By leveraging this self-awareness, you can make positive changes within yourself and your relationship, fostering growth and harmony.
Tip #3 - Re-interpreting Yelling from Your Wife Appropriately to Maximize Permanent Resolution.
Yelling from your wife is often a cry for help or a manifestation of underlying issues or frustrations. Instead of immediately reacting negatively, it's important to re-interpret their behavior appropriately.
Understand that yelling may stem from deeper emotional or communication challenges. By approaching the situation with empathy and understanding, you can create a safe space for open and honest communication, giving her the freedom to express her expectations, feelings, and concerns without resorting to yelling.
Tip #2 - The Right Way to Establish Boundaries and Communication Guidelines
Establishing clear boundaries and communication guidelines is crucial when dealing with yelling in a relationship. Instead of practicing lower tolerance of your wife, think about boundaries for yourself and self-respect.
When you have adequate self-respect and boundaries, there are certain types of conversations you would never engage with an emotional reaction.
Once your wife demonstrates that she is mimicking the level of self-respect that you desire, you can then sit down with her and have an open conversation about how yelling affects you emotionally and how you would like to be treated during disagreements. These guidelines can include alternative communication methods, such as using "I" statements or taking breaks during heated discussions, to prevent escalation and promote healthy dialogue.
Tip #1 - How to Create Sustainable Measures to Keep Yelling and Bad Communication Habits Far Away From Your Marriage.
Resolving the issue of yelling in your marriage requires sustainable measures to prevent its recurrence. This involves ongoing effort and commitment from you in the short-term, and eventually both partners over the long run.
Practice active listening, empathy, and patience in your day-to-day interactions. By consistently prioritizing open and respectful communication, you can create a healthier and more harmonious relationship, keeping yelling and bad communication habits at bay.
Dealing with a wife who constantly yells at you can be emotionally challenging and detrimental to your mental health and the relationship. However, by following these five tips, you can take significant steps toward resolving this issue permanently.
If you're struggling with the issue of your wife yelling at you, we understand the challenges you're facing. LOLA and I have been through similar experiences, and we have written a book called "Get My Marriage Back" sharing our personal story and the strategies we used to overcome this issue permanently.
Download our book for free from www.LoveAndPrestige.com for a comprehensive guide to building a harmonious and loving relationship and marriage.
Remember, resolving conflicts in a relationship requires commitment and effort from both partners, but it starts with you. Prioritize your safety, engage in self-reflection, and work towards open and respectful communication with your wife.
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