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Aug 29, 2023

Welcome to our comprehensive guide to real estate investing – the ultimate ticket to financial freedom! Whether you're new to the game or looking to expand your investment horizons, you're in the right place. So let's dive right in!

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You've probably heard about investment portfolios – those magical collections of assets that can help you ride the wave of financial success. Well, guess what? Real estate is your golden ticket to building wealth that's more stable than your grandma's rocking chair.

Now, imagine your investment portfolio as a delicious blend of stocks, bonds, mutual funds, and, of course, the superstar of them all – real estate! Balancing potential returns and risks is the name of the game here.

And speaking of real estate, it's more than just cozy homes. It's an umbrella that covers everything from skyscrapers to warehouses. Think of it like a puzzle – you've got the land, the buildings, and all those little improvements that make it shine.

Yep, improvements – those upgrades that boost a property's value and charm. It's like giving your home a stylish makeover. And guess what? This concept applies to both your cozy single family homes and that sleek commercial building downtown.

Now, when it comes to real estate, we're not just talking about land – we're talking about the whole package. Imagine the land as the canvas and the structures as the masterpiece that's painted upon it.

And here's the scoop: real estate investing is the flavor of the season.  You can finally say goodbye to inflation worries and hello to boosting your net worth like a pro!

And guess what? Real estate is no pushover. It's not just holding its ground over time; it's giving other investments a run for their money. Stocks, cryptocurrencies, forex – they're all in the ring, but real estate? It's the heavyweight champion!

Let's break it down with some numbers, shall we? So, stocks might dance around 7% average annual return, but real estate? 

It's got its own rhythm, averaging between 5-7%. 

And hey, unlike stocks, real estate doesn't let you make impulsive decisions – it's got a built-in restraint, like a trusty seatbelt for your financial journey.

Cryptocurrencies? Well, they're like the rollercoaster of investments – one moment up, the next moment down. And as for forex, it's like spinning a globe and trying to predict the future. But real estate? It's that reliable old friend you can count on.

Now, you might be thinking, "Hey, I'm new to this party. Can I really join?" Absolutely! You don't need a suitcase full of cash; all you need is the right mindset, a dash of time, and a sprinkle of knowledge.

The best part? Starting out gives you an edge. Seasoned investors might be juggling a lot, but you? You've got the luxury of time and the thrill of picking your path. 

And guess what? You don't need a vault full of gold bars to snag a seat at the real estate table. Even a humble couple of thousand dollars can kick-start your journey. All you need is the right strategy and a splash of know-how.

Now, before we wrap up, are you wondering if taking the real estate plunge is worth it? It's like asking if ice cream on a hot day is a good idea – absolutely! With the right approach, your investments can work harder for you.

And for those of you thinking, "But my wallet's feeling light," No worries! We've got a step-by-step guide for you to invest with little to no money. Get ready to be amazed!

Ready for the ultimate real estate investing journey? Let's get into the nitty-gritty with our step-by-step guide!

Step 1: Educate Yourself. Before you leap, learn! Dive into some real estate investing books.

Get my books.  They are FREE...  "Smart Real Estate Wholesaling" and "Real Estate Money Secrets" – they're your guides to success.

Get them at www.RealEstateMoneySecrets.com

Step 2: Embrace Technology. Get cozy with technology – it's your real estate ally. Explore apps like the one I use and recommend at www.EmpireBigData.com for property records and analysis tools that'll make you a deal-spotting wizard.

Step 3: Network and Mentorship. Connect like a pro! Networking is your secret sauce. It's how I started in 2005, scouring newspapers for meetups. Today, social media makes it even easier to build a community.

Step 4: Get Creative with Financing. You don't need a money tree to invest. Wholesale real estate, explore seller financing, or dive into lease options. The world of real estate is your oyster.

Step 5: Meet REITs. Meet Real Estate Investment Trusts (REITs) – your ticket to investing without buying properties. These companies are like your backstage pass to real estate riches.

Step 6: Invest Your Sweat Equity. Got skills? Put 'em to work! Partner up, offer your expertise, and watch your investment grow, just like that cozy bungalow you've got your eye on.

Step 7: Join Forces with Joint Ventures. Teamwork makes the dream work! Partner with experienced investors who've got the funds, and you've got the energy and skills. It's a win-win.

In fact, downloading my books for free at www.RealEstateMoneySecrets.com is the very first step to partnering with us here.

Step 8: Master the Art of Negotiation. Negotiation is your secret weapon. Learn the ropes, focus on distressed properties, and swoop in for the win.

Step 9: House Hacking. Imagine living in a place that pays for itself! House hacking lets you do just that. Live in a multi-unit property and rent out the other units – covering your living expenses while building equity and gaining real estate experience.

But wait, we're not done yet! There's still more to uncover in this real estate adventure. Are you ready?

Step 10: Continuous Learning and Adaptation. Markets change, strategies evolve, and innovations pop up like daisies. It's important to stay informed, adapt to new trends, and keep learning about this dynamic world of real estate.

Remember, while it's possible to invest in real estate with little to no money, it requires dedication, resourcefulness, and a willingness to learn. And we've made that super-simple with access to the free books, "Smart Real Estate Wholesaling" and "Real Estate Money Secrets" at www.RealEstateMoneySecrets.com

By utilizing creative strategies and leveraging available resources, you can begin your real estate investing journey and work towards building wealth over time.

So there you have it, the ultimate 10-step guide to real estate investing! From learning the ropes to networking, from creative financing to house hacking – you're armed with all the tools you need to embark on this exciting journey.

Now, go out there and make those real estate dreams a reality! Happy investing, and remember – the only limit is your imagination.

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Aug 23, 2023

Hey There.  This is OLA.  Today, we're diving into more wholesale real estate, and I'm here to be your guide. So grab a seat, because we're about to uncover the best wholesale real estate books that will pave your path to triumph.

But before we dive into these treasure troves of knowledge, let's break down the basics of wholesale real estate in a way that even your grandma would get it.

Imagine you're at a warehouse store, grabbing a massive bag of your favorite chips at a discounted price. Now, picture selling those individual bags to your pals at a slightly higher rate but still cheaper than what they'd pay at a convenience store. Well, that's the essence of wholesale real estate – but instead of chips, we're dealing with houses!

Wholesale real estate is a smart strategy. You, yes you, become the middle-person, connecting motivated sellers who need to sell quickly with investors hungry for prime real estate opportunities. Your role is to secure properties at prices lower than what savvy investors would pay, and then, like a matchmaker, connect the seller and investor for a win-win situation.

And guess what? I've personally scored a whopping $82,000 net profit from a single deal using this method! But wait, there's more to it than meets the eye.

Wholesale real estate isn't just about connecting buyers and sellers. It's about understanding the market, finding motivated sellers, and honing your negotiation skills. It's a blend of detective work, interpersonal finesse, and real estate expertise all rolled into one exciting adventure!

So, whether you're a beginner dipping your toes into real estate or a seasoned investor, wholesale real estate is your ticket to some serious gains. It's a win-win for everyone involved: sellers get quick sales, investors score great deals, and you – the clever middleperson – pocket a well-deserved fee.

Ready to learn more? Well, here comes the best part! I've handpicked an assortment of remarkable wholesale real estate books that will skyrocket your expertise. Let's kick things off with a must-read: 

Wholesale Real Estate Book Number 1: "The Book on Investing in Real Estate with No (and Low) Money Down" by the incredible Brandon Turner. This gem isn't solely about wholesale real estate, but it's loaded with creative financing insights that have been game-changers in my own deals.

Creative financing, my friend, is the secret sauce that adds flavor to your real estate game. It's about thinking outside the box to make deals happen when traditional financing options fall short. Seller financing, lease-options, subject-to deals – it's like a buffet of innovative strategies that empower you to secure properties on your terms. And now, let's talk about...

Wholesale Real Estate Book Number 2:  "Wholesaling Real Estate: A Beginner's Guide" by Brent Driscoll. This book is a true gem for newbies like me, packed with foundational wisdom and practical tips that even beginners can apply. Next up...

Wholesale Real Estate Book Number 3:  We have "Flip Your Future: How to Quit Your Job, Live Your Dreams, And Make Six Figures Your First Year Flipping Real Estate" by Ryan Pineda. This powerhouse read doesn't just cover flipping, but also offers golden insights for successful wholesaling. Six-figure dreams, here we come!

Wholesale Real Estate Book Number 4: "The Wholesale Truth: Real Estate Investing in the Modern World" by Vena Jones-Cox and Brent Driscoll – a treasure trove of wisdom for wholesale real estate enthusiasts. From finding deals to mastering negotiations, this guide is your ultimate resource for becoming a pro. And let's not forget..

Wholesale Real Estate Book Number 5:  "If You Can't Wholesale After This: I've Got Nothing For You" by Todd M. Fleming. It's a no-nonsense, straight-to-the-point book that breaks down the wholesale process with practical advice. It's like having a seasoned mentor right at your fingertips.

But hold on tight, because there's a surprise waiting for you! As a thank-you gesture, I'm offering my very own authored books for FREE! "Smart Real Estate Wholesaling" and "Real Estate Money Secrets" are up for grabs. You can go to www.SmartRealEstateWholesaling.com to download your copies.

These reads will equip you with the knowledge and skills needed to conquer wholesale real estate. From foundational principles to insider strategies, these books are your compass for navigating this exciting journey.

Happy reading, happy investing, and remember – success awaits those who dare to take the leap into the world of wholesale real estate!

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Aug 17, 2023

Hey there, everyone! Welcome back to our channel. Today, we've got a topic that's been buzzing in the comments section – the connection between menopause, intimacy, and its impact on marriage. You asked, and we're here to discuss. But first, let's dive into some intriguing comments from our viewers, Gregory and Deshaun, on our previous video "Is Sexless Marriage Grounds for Divorce in the Bible?" Stick around, because we're about to have a heart-to-heart about this important issue.

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Gregory's Comment: "My wife, once she's gone through menopause, doesn't want to be intimate with me. To me, it sounds like an excuse. I've heard about older women still having sex in their old age."

Deshaun's Comment: In answering the question of "if sexless marriage is grounds for divorce in the bible? She says... "Most definitely , and it’s a two-way street. I just left a 12-year sex-less marriage. It was the most humiliating, dehumanizing experience ever!"

We'll be addressing these insightful comments in just a moment. So, grab a cozy spot, because we're about to have a candid and informative discussion about the effects of menopause on intimacy and relationships. Let's jump in!

Alright, let's start by understanding what menopause really is.  Menopause is a natural phase in a woman's life, signaling the end of her reproductive years. During this time, the ovaries gradually produce fewer hormones, leading to the cessation of menstrual periods. Usually occurring between 45 and 55, menopause brings along various changes – not just physically, but emotionally too.

Now, let's review what exactly a sexless marriage is.  A sexless marriage is generally defined as a relationship where couples have minimal or no sexual activity for an extended period. Keep in mind, what's considered "sexless" can vary from couple to couple, depending on individual preferences and needs.  But that's a tricky definition too.  Let me explain.

If you or (not and)... or your partner is feeling disconnected in this department, it is a sign to address the situation.  Feeling like a detective uncovering the emotional side of menopause? I've got you covered.

Gregory's comment got us thinking. Menopause doesn't just bring physical changes; it can also stir up emotions. Like those teenage mood swings, menopause can lead to shifts in libido and self-perception. Hormonal changes, body image concerns, and self-confidence matters can all play a part in the mix.

So, how do you navigate a sexless marriage after 60? Let's talk solutions!  Deshaun's candid experience reminds us that it's no walk in the park. Communication is key. Open, respectful conversations about needs and concerns (though easier said than done) can bridge the gap. Seeking professional guidance is also a great step to tackle this tough phase together; you will need the support--trust me!

Now, let's talk about the elephant in the room – how does a sexless marriage affect husbands and wives?  Just like the effect on wives, a sexless marriage can have a profound impact on husbands too.

Emotional distress, self-esteem issues, communication breakdown, and doubts about connection – husbands can experience these, plus potential effects on their mental and physical health. It's a reminder that this isn't a one-sided journey as Deshaun mentioned in her comment.

Feeling the need to reignite the spark after menopause? We've got some tips for you.  Gregory's concern about post-menopause intimacy isn't uncommon. Remember, it's not just about physical stimulation. Emotional connection, making your partner feel desired – these are essential. Exploring new forms of intimacy, like focused touch and romantic gestures, can be a game-changer.

Deshaun's experience highlights the importance of both partners engaging self awareness and keeping the flame alive. From surprising date nights to exploring fantasies, there's a world of ways to spice up your married life. Communication, experimentation, and a sprinkle of your own special charm – it's all in the mix!

To all our fantastic viewers, and especially, Gregory and Deshaun, thank you for sharing your thoughts. You've opened up a crucial dialogue about intimacy, menopause, and marriage.  Remember, every relationship is a unique journey. Patience, understanding, and communication are your allies. Don't compare your path to others'. Seek guidance ... You need the support when your personal emotions are engaged, and always remember – the heart of a fulfilling marriage is built on emotional connection, respect, and genuine care for one another.

That's it for today's chat! Don't forget to hit that like button, share and subscribe for more insightful discussions. If you enjoyed this video, you will love the one that just popped up on the screen right here.  Until next time, keep those conversations going, and take care!

 

Aug 9, 2023

When examining the question, "Is a sexless marriage biblical grounds for divorce?" In the context of the Bible's teachings, it's important to consider various factors that impact relationships and intimacy within marriage. This is OLA. LOLA is doing well. Thanks for asking.

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Sexless marriages are a reality that some couples face, and understanding how biblical principles relate to this issue requires a nuanced approach. 

In fact, I was just listening to a video where some men referred to one form of this same problem as duty-booty.  

This is a situation where one of the spouses is not really interested in sexual activity but would indulge purely as a dutiful responsibility.

You can expect that it would wear completely off with time.  The truth is that this is a struggle for many married couples.

So What Does The Bible Say?

The Bible does not explicitly mention sexless marriages as grounds for divorce, but it does provide guidance on the importance of intimacy, love, and mutual respect within a marital relationship.

The Biblical Perspective on Intimacy and Love:

Throughout the Bible, there is a consistent emphasis on the significance of physical and emotional intimacy within marriage. 

The Song of Solomon, for instance, beautifully portrays the love and desire shared between a husband and wife. 

Additionally, verses such as 1 Corinthians 7:3-5 highlight the mutual responsibility spouses have to fulfill each other's needs and to avoid depriving one another of intimacy.

“Verse 3: The husband should give to his wife her conjugal rights, and likewise the wife to her husband. 

Verse 4: For the wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does. Likewise the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does. 

Verse 5: Do not deprive one another, except perhaps by agreement for a limited time, that you may devote yourselves to prayer; but then come together again, so that Satan may not tempt you because of your lack of self-control.”

The Importance of Communication and Understanding:

When faced with a sexless marriage, open communication and understanding between spouses become crucial. 

Engaging in honest (admittedly and perhaps awkward) conversations about each partner's sexual needs, desires, and emotional challenges can lead to a deeper understanding of the situation and potential solutions.

Seek Support and Professional Help:

For Christian couples struggling with intimacy issues, seeking guidance from trusted church leaders or professional counselors who align with biblical principles can be beneficial. 

These individuals can provide insight and support in addressing the root causes of the problem and working towards solutions that align with the couple's faith.

Emphasize Unconditional Love and Grace:

The Bible encourages love and grace within relationships as opposed to the now-popular misguided boundaries that couples are now setting on each other nowadays. 

Recognizing that no marriage is perfect, spouses should strive to extend grace and understanding to each other. 

Instead of rushing into divorce, couples are encouraged to prayerfully seek resolutions and healing through patience, forgiveness, and commitment to growth.

In conclusion… 

While the Bible doesn't explicitly designate a sexless marriage as grounds for divorce, it does emphasize the importance of intimacy, love, and respect within marriage. 

When faced with this challenge, it is essential for Christian couples to approach the issue with prayer, communication, understanding, and a commitment to strengthen their bond; it's all a camouflaged opportunity. 

Seeking professional help and support from the faith community can also aid couples in navigating through difficult times. 

Remember, God's ultimate desire is for marriages to thrive and reflect His love and grace.

Are you ready to take your relationship and marriage to the next level?  Our testimony is available for you as a free book that you can download at www.GetMyMarriageBack.com

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